That's life...Sometime we just don't realise what others have done for us- Be it in front of or behind the scene...So sometimes we 'tak sempat' to say thanks to them- Not because you don't want to thank him/her, but simply because you just don't realise his/her contribution at that time. Yet a true friend will not think much about it. A help given is a help given indeed, no matter the outcome is very good/good/ok/whatever (!!!), at least he/she has done what he/she think is the best thing that he/she can do within capabilities at that time...
Sometimes life is like that...We expect a lot from others yet we have to realise that the world will keep rotating no matter what's our perception is...No one will change him/herself will change his/her personality completely in order to suit others. Every person has his/her own principles of life, lifestyle, 'code of ethics'...And you should realise an important point: We can change ourselves, or we can always expect others to change to meet our expectation. Yet which option will be easier for your life?
My experience for one semester teaches me: You can choose to see life negatvely and hope that others will always suit your need, which usually won't be, at the end...So then it's a time to choose: repel it (and be in suffer) or accept it (wholeheartedly, if possible).
Sometimes after people has done something, we see it yet we'll think something like: He/She should have done this, then everything will be better...It's never wrong to have such expectation. Its never wrong to advice people, especially when the advice is really useful to him/her indeed. Yet sometimes people is people, they can't remember your every single words 100%. They may absorb and practice 50% or 30% or etc in your life (which is quite Ok already), or they may just ignore your words (worst!).
And majority mistakes are done unpurposely...People feel bad when they realise they do mistake...And sometimes people don't realise it until they 'hit' by something! Shouldn't we be more than willing to forgive these? If not, life with cycle of counting will just never end...life with a lot of 'reminders' doesn't sounds so nice...hmm...
Life indeed should be meaningful if you managed to find out your motivation. You live due to that yet don't ignore your obligation to others at the same time. You are still a son/daughter, brother/sister, friend, student, blogger, neighbour, customer, etc, etc... So at the moment when pursuing your life goal be prepared to put allowance for other obligations. Indeed they should not be viewed as obligations...Be sincere and do your best when you are a friend/student/neighbour/etc, then you should discover that you can lead a quite happy life...as everything around you works so well...not say all within your expectation (life is never 100% perfect), but at least you managed to accept everything and live along with that...
Hmm...That's long...Theory is usually easy but practise is usually the most difficult part...Again, THAT'S LIFE :)
And one more thing, life is a never ending wishing journey:
I wish my father and mother always be healthy.
I wish my brother and sister do well in their studies and/or works.
I wish my friend always be happy.
I wish...
I wish...
A smile to your life is more than enough, then...
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